About me:

I'm 35, single mom of an elementary-aged son. I have a great job and make good money. I don't smoke or use drugs - I do drink socially, though.

I'm blonde with blue eyes and BBW. Now, let me qualify that. I do not weigh 300 freaking pounds and am not disgusting. I am very attractive and take great care of myself. I just hate the gym. I'm confident in who I am and how I look and if you're not into that, then move along.

I love listening to music, cooking, reading. I'm not outdoorsy - sorry, but I'm not a camper or motorcycle rider! I'm intelligent and funny.

About you:

You should be 30-40ish. You should have a job, a car and your own place and be financially "on your feet". Kids are a plus. You should not be allergic to cats (I have 2 kittens!) I prefer clean-cut guys with short hair. Race isn't that important to me. My preferred body type is athletic to average. (As if BBWs are allowed to hang out with thinner guys! LOL)

What I'm NOT looking for:

My son has a dad who is very involved in his life, so I'm not looking for a stand-in. (As a matter of fact, it will take me while to get to the "meet the kid" stage of a relationship"!) I'm not looking for a sugar daddy - I can support myself. I'm not looking for guys to email me pix of their peckers or pix where you're holding firearms or fish. If you're married, please don't respond. I'm not looking for NSA hookups. I'm not going to text you pics of my boobs right out of the gate, so please don't ask! LOL

What I AM looking for:

Someone to talk with, text with and laugh with. Someone to grab a beer and Mexican food with, someone to catch up with at the end of a busy work day. I'm looking for a connection... I'm looking for honesty and loyalty. I'm looking for someone to be "me" with.

So, if this sounds like it might be you, then send along a pic. Your pic and interesting introduction will get a reply.